In accordance with Pedroso and Bousso (2004), to include the family in the context of the care demand of the professional who it catches nuances of experience of the family, getting rid themselves of the idea of whom the care must be individual and not with the familiar group. For Galva and Scochi (2005), ahead of the transformations suffered for the neonatais units in recent years some strategies are used for inclusion of the family in the cares. In accordance with this study, currently already the release of visits for other members of the family is allowed as brothers, grandmothers and others next people, permanence of the parents next to the interned son, creation of groups of support, incentive to the participation of the mothers in the care to the RN and inclusion in the taking of decisions in the treatment. Fleet et al (2007) considers the presence of the mother next to the son in the neonatal UTI of basic importance. When receiving support from the health team, this mother starts if to adapt to the routine of the environment, develops the care and demystifies the perception of fragility of the RN of high risk.

To ratify the analyzed studies, Oliveiras et al (2006) say that the search for the quality of life of the just-been born one of high risk makes with that if it looks an attendance individualizado and directed to the baby and its family. Thus, father and mother in the cares for the bond establishment and affection with the neonato include themselves. Having only Wernet and ngelo (2007) he enters the searched ones that he does not make reference to any reference the insertion of the family in the environment of the cares, is clearly that the shelter of the family for the team of health reduces the fear and the anxiety of this. To humanizar the care, the parents are inserted in this context and start to participate of the cares and the taking of decisions.